For a child, the most terrible feeling is that he is not loved, the fear that he will be rejected – this is hell for a child. Rejection entails anger, and anger pushes towards crime in revenge for rejection, crime will give birth to guilt – and this is the whole history of mankind. How often in our time women experience the pain of betrayal, divorce occurs, and behind all this is the betrayal of the closest person. How to decide after such a trauma to believe again in the sincerity and loyalty of the relationship? … In our life we sometimes experience betrayal, and our natural reaction to it is the decision never to reveal ourselves to people …
Rejection can be described as a feeling of being unnecessary. When a child is constantly criticized at an early age, sooner or later he begins to think that something is wrong with him. He does not understand why they are always unhappy with him, but he believes that his parents know better, and he deserves this attitude. The little person has a feeling of worthlessness, it seems to him that he is not loved. He is not worthy of love, a good attitude, therefore, he is bad.he main result of rejection is the inability to receive and transmit love. This is why rejection is one of the biggest obstacles to love.One of the main tasks of the “Bertinе House” is to teach women to overcome the fear of rejection, to be able to trust, to be able to love their children.